By DENISE MEDANY

One Heart Too Many 

Do you secretly berate yourself over a lack of patience and compassion for your widower’s heartache? Are you ashamed of your insensitivity toward the surviving loved ones? Do you go to great lengths to help facilitate the grieving process? Do you feel rejected by the children, former in-laws, or others who are not ready to see the surviving husband move on? If so, you aren’t alone. Denise Medany’s One Heart Too Many offers a pragmatic “take no prisoners” approach to dealing with the challenges of loving a widower. This no-nonsense guide reveals the struggle to move on and how you may be contributing to or even prolonging the problem.
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Boy! I wish I had this resource 11 years ago when I first started dating a widower! Years later when I googled questions pertaining to my frustrating relationship issues; I found a couple of books that helped me see that no matter where you are, your age, your background etc. there are universal problems, misunderstandings and conflicts that arise when dating someone that has lost their spouse. What an eye opener!

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